Growing up gay or bisexual raises special challenges for men wanting to be whole and integrated. You had to shut down or disconnect from parts of yourselves to survive in a homophobic culture. And survive you did. You may have even built a community of good friends and a “good life” for yourself. But eventually you may find yourself feeling anxiety, depression, frustration, unhappiness or a sense of aimlessness that won’t go away. This is often a sign that what you needed to do to survive isn’t working for you anymore.

Helping gay and bisexual men find their way to wholeness is one of my specialties.

Issues I work with include:

• Coming out
• Gay relationships
• Shame and Self-esteem
• Masculinity issues
• Sex addiction and other shadow aspects of sexuality
• Unhealthy use of drugs and alcohol
• Overcoming self-judgment
• Bisexuality and marriage conflicts
• Gay parenting
• Mid-life crisis
• Aging gracefully
• Spirituality